I am an educated (doctorate) professional woman who is polyamorous in search of a man who is also poly. I exercise three times a week and have lots of interests - classical music, film, books, progressive politics, good food, the outdoors, cats, international travel. Discretion is a must. [COLOR blue][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I am ideally looking for a poly man who is also in a primary relationship who is highly educated, intellectual, loves sex and maybe somewhat into kink/casual sex, who is looking to date a strong, assertive, woman in a primary relationship with another woman. I am looking for a long-term friend. Extra points if you are also bi. I am looking for a man who I can also enjoy talking with outside of bed, as you are also educated (at the very minimum a BA but preferably a graduate/professional degree), well-read, politically aware (NO REPUBLICANS!). I'm looking for an older (over 45), healthy, non-smoking professional, highly educated and who also needs to be discrete. You have to be able to host and it would be easier if you don't have children at home. You also should have enough time to get together for a day or two of wonderful recreation - sex, talk, music, good food, wine. Strong direct communication skills are a must! YOU ARE UNLIKELY TO GET A RESPONSE FROM ME IF, IN YOUR PROFILE OR IN YOUR EMAIL TO ME, YOU DON'T ADDRESS SOME OF THE THINGS I BRING UP IN MY PROFILE If you aren't serious about the possibility of getting together and just want an email thing or if you really don't have time to get together on a regular basis, please don't waste my time. YES, I AM PICKY BUT I KNOW WHAT I WANT. If you can't handle a strong, assertive woman, then I'm not the woman for you!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
classical pianists

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am out on a mini-vacation after a business trip and I get
caught in a rainstorm at a wildlife refuge. I meet an older
M/F couple as we all run to seek shelter together. We start
to talk as we wait out the storm. She's a doc, he's a college professor. We are all soaked. The couple
says that they live nearby and invite me in to dry up when
it's apparent that the rain isn't going to stop
soon. I accept, take a shower, get in a terry cloth robe they
provide me with, and we sit in front of the fire, drinking wine and eating a light meal.
They ask if I'd like to go into their Jacuzzi and I say
yes but I forgot my swimsuit and anyway, I hate wearing swimsuits
in Jacuzzis. They say, no problem, they don't wear
them either. We get in and the couple starts to kiss and massage
each other and they move over to me and I join in. We end up
having sex all night long.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, dirty talk

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I've actually done this but you won't get the details
out of me!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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