Nothing gets me hotter than a confident man who's smart and can make me laugh. I'm just looking for casual, fun, no holds barred playing, but even that requires some sort of connection for me. Btw, I'm in NC and Italy many times a year. Being with someone who doesn't have the same sexual desires can make for a lot of unhappiness and serious frustration. If you aren't fun and playful and fearless...and quite deviant (but ultimately sane and conscientious) then we won't be a fit. I have a vivid imagination and I like to share. I can be really dominant or, if I trust you, really submissive. I expect boundaries to be respected. Once I know you,there's not much I'm not into. I like it rough and raunchy and sweet and gentle. I love sex and I am not looking for my soulmate on this site. I want to play and be free and I don't want any drama of any kind. You must be disease free!

My Ideal Person I don't have a particular type either physically or with regard to personality. I like a man who's mellow but not simple. It's essential that he be rational, able to articulate his feelings, and an optimist.
Who knows why we click with the people we do? Looking back on the men of my life I see no pattern except that they were nice guys who liked to deeply connect, they were sexy, and we seemed to laugh together a lot. If you're smart and fun, if our senses of humor are compatible, if you are a profoundly good person who is open-minded, we'd be off to a good start....beyond that it's up to the fairies in the sky to decide what happens.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
U2, Oasis, The Eagles, Planet Funk........

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm on a crowded train in Europe in winter and a businessman
wearing a trenchcoat has gotten on. We've made eye
contact while he was on the platform and now he's pressed
up against me, through no fault of his own. His crotch is
pushed against my ass and there's not a bit of space
for either of us to move...he's wedged into the corner.
The train lurches and my ass pushes into him. I feel him getting stiff. He tries frantically to pull away, but without
looking at him, I grind my ass back into his cock. I hear him
suck in his breath and I lean my whole body back against him.
I slowly, almost imperceptibly, start grinding my hips
into his thick hard dick, positioning his hard-on between
my cheeks, barely sliding up and down. I feel his ragged
breathing on my neck, in my ear, and it's like an electric shock
travels right down between my legs. It's so late in the evening and
so chaotic in there that no one even notices what's happening.
At the next stop I turn and look into his eyes, take his hand and
lead him off the train as he holds his coat closed in front of him.
I take him to a little alcove down at the end of the dark, deserted
platform, unzip him, crouch down, and slide his gorgeous cock into
my mouth. Still no word has been spoken. It continues from
there, but you get the point.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sweet, smart men with quiet confidence and that animal
sexual energy turn me on. Like Liam Neeson and Ewan McGregor.
Ralph Fiennes makes me nuts. Bono.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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