I have be clinically described as "obese". I am 5'4, 200 pounds, and 58 years of age, but have been told I look 40 something. I feel and act 30 something most of the time. I am openminded. Not much, if anything, you can tell me or ask for that would shock me. I am not into being the receiver of anal sex. I have been married 25+years. Hubby and I love each other, but their is no longer any romance in our relationship. He seems to have lost all interests in pleasing me, therefore I have also lost interest. Our relationship is more like roommates who share the same bed. He is out of town several days/nights aweek, and I have Saturday afternoons, and all day Sunday to myself. I cannot entertain, so you must have your own place. I am looking for a discreet affair with a male that I am physically attracted to. However, how you handle yourself speaks louder than your looks. I am not looking for a one-night, but am looking for someone who is not afraid to be intimate and not afraid to love. Not "fall in love". There is a difference. You can love someone without being in love.

My Ideal Person Circumsized, honest, law obiding man, who isn't into illegal drugs of any kind, who is open minded in the bedroom, and not afraid to go out of his way to please me, not just himself. I am not at all turned on by a man who sends "cock" pictures and wants to hop in the sack after the first meeting. Prove to me you have more to offer than your cock. To me they all look alike in a picture. Anything over 7 inches is a plus.