My interest is interactive role & story-playing via chat. Me writing a submissive character dealing with dominant male antagonists. The emphasize is on WRITING, ROLE PLAYING and FICTION. Furthermore: my medium is chat, e-mail exchanges do not work for me. I am into reading and writing, not interested in cam. The story element is very important to me. Mere description of sex without at least telling a simple story bores me. I want to write about something with a proper set of characters instead of mere fuck-dolls, an interesting scenario and a dynamic that leads to sex in some plausible way, not just “there is a man and a woman and they fuck”. To illustrate a bit what I consider ‘mere description of sex’ and very boring, here some examples of really tacky and unimaginative "scenarios": [I]- “We walk along the beach to our hotel. I run my hand over your back and kiss you as we walk. When we enter our room …” – “We meet at a bar. You wear (whatever) and notice me. I find you attractive and you are also taken by my appearance and attitude. After chatting and a few drinks I put my hand on your thigh. Then …” – “You enter my play-room. Collared and handcuffed like I trained you. Then …” [/I] These examples have four things in common: - paper-thin, boring characters without any background, relation to each other or ‘life’ - no dynamic or motivation whatsoever explaining what happens except ‘they just do it’ - mere lip-service paid to ‘roles’ and ‘story’ with the sole focus on the description of sex (indicated by the “…”) - they all make me yawn. I read back-covers of porn-vids containing more plot than the above. If you are interested in what I would consider a ‘proper story’, go ahead and read a bit my ‘other topics’ entries. You’ll see: it is not that difficult to come up with a better script than “there are a man and a woman and out of the blue they start to fuck.”

My Ideal Person I prefer online-partners, who already have an idea what story they like to play and a plan how to get the ball rolling. The end of a story never matters to me as much as the start. If the start sucks, you will never get to any end anyways.

I of course can never guarantee that I will like any given idea. BUT even if I got to reject an idea you proposed, you at least showed you HAD an idea and thatÂ’s already something.

I work best with guys who can answer the following three questions in a concise manner

1) What roles or scenario you like us to play? (choice of characters)
2) How do we get from that starting point to sex? (entry plan)
3) What sexual activities do you actually want to be portrayed in the story? (aim of story)

What I really have no use for are guys whose only contribution to the set-up of the story is “Anything. You pick.” Think about it. If that is really all you can contribute to the story, then why do I not just write it entirely on my own? Or imagine you asked me “What story you want?” and all I replied were “Anything. You pick.”

Pretty frustrating answer right?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
As mentioned in my profile, here some examples of roles, plots and scenarios. I kept these reeeeal simple and crude to show that the basic idea of a story can be conveyed concisely with a handful of words. Many of the ideas below can be varied and mutated on their own or with each other. JOB APPLICANT: I want a job but few prospects, you make clear I will only get it if I agree to some ‘extra work’ besides my normal duties, TENANT: I want to rent one of your flats, but am not sure I can afford it, you mention there are ‘ways to reduce the rent’. STUDENT: test papers were returned, I am not satisfied, I talk to you to see if I can get better marks if I spread for you FLIGHT-ATTENDANT: I work as a stewardess, you found a porn magazine with pics of me, you find out where I work and arrange to be on one of my flights as a passenger. WANNABE-STAR: I want to be a model, you claim you can help me, but fastest way you claim is to start from the very bottom HOUSEWIFE: you are a repairman (or whatever), I have the habit of paying in sex, you probably already know that from other repairmen, the postman or milkman. NEIGHBOUR/CO-WORKER/BOSS/TEACHER: I am your neighbor or co-worker or boss or teacher, you spot an ad of me on a swinger-site, but you will keep it under the lid if … HOOKER: I hook, you only got to haggle out a proper deal HITCH-HIKER: Easy, I need a ride, you tell me I get one if … TOUR-GUIDE / HOTEL-MAID: I am your guide/translator/maid in your hotel somewhere, but you know many of us are into extra-money too COLLECT DONATIONS: I collect donations/signatures as a volunteer, but only a ruse, actually I like to visit men at home and see what they make me do to get the donation/signature. TRAFFIC VIOLATION: you are about to give me a ticket, I try to wiggle my way out. SHOPPLIFTING: I was shoplifting, you caught me, my bad PRISONER: I am arrested in a country without rule of law, pretty easy from there. MAID: I work as your maid, you check how far you can push the limits. PRANK: I was involved in a student prank, you got photo evidence of it ILLEGAL IMMIGRANT: you discover I am illegally in your country, bad for me WAITRESS: I work in an adult bar as a waitress in spite of being not of the proper age. ECT. ETC. ETC..

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, above apply to FICTION

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
communication skills

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