As a recent relocatee, I find myself in an unfamiliar land, away from family and friends, knowing not a soul. Perhaps you have own struggles...long hours, ren, empty marriage, restlessness, boredom, the list is virtually endless. What if you had someone who could be available when you felt a certain need, want, or desire? And no, , as I am decidedly not a rock, movie, or porn star, just a sane, normal, albeit somewhat naughty guy with more needs than time. And no, I am not married or involved, bored or neglected. I simply work a lot, travel/commute extensively and make time for a most unapologetically, and find the normal or traditional avenues of dating, meeting, etc. mostly out of reach. That being said, I can make time, and do. A certain spontaneity is necessary at tmes but for the right situation I will do what I can to make it happen. I am a multi-degreed professional, quite intelligent but amusingly playful, sarcastic, sensual, and very affectionate and attentive to the one Im with. Im a swm, 45, about 6'2, a burly big guy, outdoorsy, teddy bear type, brown hair and eyes, broad shoulders, big arms, clean cut and completely drug and disease free. A bhm? I'm not much for labels or roles so suffice it to say I'm very alpha, have natural dominant tendencies and am aggressive as necessary. ;)

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman with similar needs, although you can be short on time as well or have plenty of it. I seek a smart, sassy, sensual even naughty girl to allow me to enjoy pleasing her, taking her, maybe giving her a smile that is otherwise missing and that bit of companionship and physical interaction she may also be lacking. A woman who knows that simple pillow talk, naked, intertwined, skin to skin closeness can be as intimate as primal, lustful sex. I like all types, shapes, etc, as once you gain some experience and perspective an alpha type man realizes that a lot of allure, attraction and sex appeal can come from attitude as it can appearance. As a bigger guy, I do tend to like thicker women, as I seem to have always been attracted to curves. I simply adore a curvy beauty. Hands, caresses, lips...Think ravish, devour and worship. I do not typically subscribe to traditional ideals. When the opportunity is there to be together then lets not waste time fretting over tradition, societal norms, or what others may deem as right, wrong, dirty or whatever. As an extroverted alpha male, I am not accustomed to bouts of loneliness so this is another of those alternative paths I've taken.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm not sure I have any. Ladies, any ideas? :)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, Others available,, make me an offer. :)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Ok, as odd as it may seem, I sometimes wonder what certain
female newspersons are like sexually.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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