In short, I am a free spirited woman, and VERY passionate about things I believe in, Including. People, Places, Things & Idea's. I can be a handful at times but am level-headed as well (not to worry) I have been an Entertainer for most all of my life in some form or another. I have three ren AND a grand ! ISO someone who wont try to change me! Not a bar fly and NOT a drug user! Someone who wants to live and LET LIVE! Someone who is HONEST! I am looking for a guy who is not superficial. I want a man to like me for who I am, what I have become, and who I aspire to be. I’m not looking for a serious relationship but if it happens, who am I to say no? I want a self supporting man who loves to spoil his woman. I want a man who is experienced with woman, so He or I doesn't have to be a mind reader! I want a man who understands that woman is a little dramatic. I am ALL women, I am strong, independent but sometimes I want a man to take charge and have a mind of his own. I want to have my own identity and I want my man to have the same. I want us to mutually respect each other’s individuality and support each other’s goals and dreams. Is this too much to ask? I like to get fixed up and like the attention. hopefully you wont mind the "Natural" look most of the time! Hope this weeds out a few headaches for you & I!

My Ideal Person I have worked very hard my whole life and raised my children without need, on my own.
As I said.I was a single parent, which shows that I have not made good choices when it comes to choosing a partner, so I would like to search for the quality's that I over looked in the past because now I know what it is that I NEED, not what I THINK I want!
After years of having "kindness mistaken for stupidity" I have come to the educated conclusion that my partner represents not just financial acumen, but the mindset which embraces ambition and success. I am highly competitive and driven within my chosen world but have been plagued with partners who were threatened by my ambitions and did all they could to bludgeon, curtail and "clip my wings". My Partner should understand and admire ambition and be willing to support and reward these qualities. He would have the personal success and associated confidence which lifts him above the level of "block down at the pub / little woman at home making dinner". Us ladies who expect more from life than the mundane 24/7 will never meet a like minded, confident and supportive man.I am waiting!....