Where to start? There are a couple of different types of kinky people (yes, kinky) that we are looking for, so let me tell you about our relationship first, and then what kinds of kinky people we are seeking... We are very freaky, very kinky, but down to earth people. We have been in in a 18 year M/F very happy marriage and have a very active and satisfying sex life. I know many would ask if the marriage is happy and satisfying, then why would we end up on a website like this? Pretty simple actually! We both have a huge imagination, a very open mind and a long list of fantasies. We both get turned on by seeing the other mind-blowing physically pleasured. After 18 years of marriage, we still are not just loving each other, but are still IN love with each other, and pleasure that comes from elsewhere isn't going to change that; that is not our intention on this site, nor should it be anyone seeking our friendship .

My Ideal Person **Kinky Playmates**
If "the female half" of this profile finds someone (or possible a couple someones) that she REALLY likes, there MAY be the option of seeing that person alone, without the husband. (Preferable age under 50). He may, and most likely, ask to see the person at least the first time for the wife's personal safety. This type of relationship would most likely be a male partner, just for a good f***! This is appealing to both of us because of we have a Dom/sub roles and seeing another would sorta break the sub role and be naughty, hehe... and it also goes back to what is stated in our introduction: we love seeing each other pleased! The male sought cannot be a Dom role player, just a really nice I cannot say it any other way, except be explicit. Even though this male isn't looking to be Dom over me or any other kink, my husband still would like respect in that he would like the male to talk to him also, once we get to the point of communication via
Having a gf for the wife is also very appealing.

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We are looking for a male and a female to have fun, in and out of the bedroom and eventually to form a triad relationship with us. We have been in a MFM and MMF before but the relationships were not long-term. Someone younger is preferable (under 30). The Mrs has not actually been with a woman, but is eagerly looking forward to that first time! ...

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Yes! This would be very fun.. Need we say more?

Playmate(S) that will be considered will have the following criteria:
1. St Louis metro area, including Illinois side, ONLY. Move along if you are not located near us, thank you.
2. DDF, and wanting to stay that way! We also are DDF.
3. Discreet. What happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. Outside of the bedroom, we can be friends, seen in public, but roles are very different.
4. Talkative! This means to both of us.. Myself and my husband. We both would like to get to know you. Although you might find yourself more easily bonding or becoming friends with one of us, you still need to talk to both. By talking, I mean communication in all forms: email, text, phone, and whispers in our ears.
5. Bi and younger for a threesome, potential triad. First is obvious.. We want you to play with both of us. Second, because we really want a boy toy, or something along those lines.
6. NOT seriously attached! Plain and simple.. we do not want angry partners at our door.... exceptions are ONLY if the significant other wishes to play with us as a group or a mixed 3-some scenario of some kind. We would be open to discussing that.
7. Physical looks are not nearly as important as intelligence, humour (including the ability to laugh at your own mistakes), spontaneity, willingness to expand your horizons/ experiment, and just be and all-around good friend. Having said that, there is some truth that physical appearance is part of chemistry. I would hope to find someone that puts the above mentioned values before physical looks, but is honest if it just doesn't click physically... however, I have found that sometimes after talking for long hours and getting to know someone before ever seeing them that I don't give a damn what they look like because they've already become sexually appealing to me mentally. We both have current (taken Aug 2, 2016), face pictures on here. If you are serious, be prepared to show your face to us... We all know that we all have genitals, hehe!
Regarding the threesome, with potential triad relationship, we are not wanting a quick hook up. We do not expect quick replies... If it happens fast, that's OK.. But we are not pushing for it fast. We want the right M/F. We want a lasting relationships.

What do we like during sex? What are our fantasies? Our roles? Our limits?
Just ask! We'll tell!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For her: She would love to be the the main attraction of a gangbang...
Or consensual nonconsent scenario would be heart racing
and very erotic...being a sex slave, given to others by
her Dom (husband), without her say so, also makes her very
wet. <br><br>
For him: Continually exploring his Dom side, her sub side, her limits,
his boundaries, and pushing boundaries of both.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Him: No. <br><br>
Her: Robert Downey Jr. .... What's NOT there to turn a woman
on? And most other actors who play in marvel comics movies...
But Robert Downey Jr is #1

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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