I'm Getting Real Tired  

GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1275 posts
12/19/2017 6:57 am
I'm Getting Real Tired


Of this new IM "feature"......

The freaking thing signs me on automatically every time I sign in, and apparently sometimes when I click on my email, or other odd times it does it as well. It use to just do that if I logged in on my cell phone, now it does it if I'm on my laptop!

Is this supposed to be a good thing? Cause I think it sucks!!

IF I wanted to go on the IM I can damn well do it when I feel like doing it, not when A*F*F feels like doing it for me!!!

Is this annoying anyone else or is it just me?.........lol


WTF.........

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 6:59 am

I KNOW how IM works.....soooooooooooo let me do it IF I want!!

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NovemberRain2702 25M
4 posts
12/19/2017 7:01 am

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NovemberRain2702 25M
4 posts
12/19/2017 7:02 am

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papis_baby_girl 42F  
3077 posts
12/19/2017 7:03 am

I guess the goal is to get everyone on IM whether they want to or not, that way the standards don't bitch that no one is ever on IM...

I just add 'sliding the button to busy' to the list of things I do on here...

sign in... check
busy on chat...check
see if anyone posted to my blog...check

well you get it...

"The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say."
-Anais Nin

"I am big, it's the pictures that got small!"
-Norma Desmond


papis_baby_girl 42F  
3077 posts
12/19/2017 7:06 am

the part that 'tans my hide' is I make the effort to show I'm busy and then it magically appears that I'm available...

now that's not fair... if I have to spend more time 'sliding' the darn thing to busy than doing my other stuff, then I just might complain...

but my complaints will be founded...not like IM sucks, can't find a woman, no real people, why does everyone want to find the man of their dreams... lolololo

"The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say."
-Anais Nin

"I am big, it's the pictures that got small!"
-Norma Desmond


Owatalife 61M
1199 posts
12/19/2017 7:18 am

They should teach a course here on how to utterly & completely
piss people off!


STampa1971 46M
30 posts
12/19/2017 7:20 am

It can be really annoying


Story435 69M  
1486 posts
12/19/2017 7:26 am

I have never seen this before but I can say I'm dose not work very good at times that's for sure.
Butch


throatscock 62M
91 posts
12/19/2017 7:30 am

Some of us are so popular and we are just annoyed by all of the message on the IM.... lol


TB5758 59M/60F  
309 posts
12/19/2017 7:33 am

I just hate that when I am not really on some may consider it rude of me not to respond. I try to tell them I am not on 24/7 even if it appears that way.


OldrHarleyGuy 66M  
89 posts
12/19/2017 7:41 am

Find that it happens all the time here. I just found that if I leave the computer on at all after I log off the site, it will keep me logged in as being on, so have to shut the computer off whenever i'm leaving it for awhile. Only stumbled on to this a little while back when was on another computer that was logged in on a friends account and it still showed me as being online.
Anyway, is just another one of the tricks in the bag of many that these sites have adopted to keep it looking like there are more users online than really are and same with the IM, makes it look as though there are more there and open for chat than there really is, etc............


perfumedgal3 69F  
17 posts
12/19/2017 7:56 am

I've people post"hey" "you there" over and over. It's rediculous. I'm not often on IM and so far when I am it freezes mid sentence. I don't like that some people get upset when I don't respond (since I'm not there, DUHHH). So it is a pain in the ass


thickncutswfl 45M
20 posts
12/19/2017 8:06 am

IM does indeed suck here.


HarddinHou 28M
17 posts
12/19/2017 8:08 am

ya the messenger is no good..... to top it all they just jacked up the cost/point system for non gold members. either trying really hard to get people to purchase gold, or to push people away; not sure which


GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:11 am

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    I guess the goal is to get everyone on IM whether they want to or not, that way the standards don't bitch that no one is ever on IM...

    I just add 'sliding the button to busy' to the list of things I do on here...

    sign in... check
    busy on chat...check
    see if anyone posted to my blog...check

    well you get it...
I suppose you are probably right.

I have now added sliding the button to busy as well to my list of things to do. The list grows.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:15 am

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    the part that 'tans my hide' is I make the effort to show I'm busy and then it magically appears that I'm available...

    now that's not fair... if I have to spend more time 'sliding' the darn thing to busy than doing my other stuff, then I just might complain...

    but my complaints will be founded...not like IM sucks, can't find a woman, no real people, why does everyone want to find the man of their dreams... lolololo
That's what aggravates me, I'll be reading an email or a blog and lo and behold I'll see my IM button magically slid over and I am now on the IM.

So I slide it back over to busy. Ugh....the "improvements" on this site are not always so welcome.

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:18 am

    Quoting Owatalife:
    They should teach a course here on how to utterly & completely
    piss people off!
Yes...with all the glitches on here it's no wonder people get pissed off. This new feature was not an improvement in my opinion....

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:19 am

It absolutely can be...and there is enough annoying glitches here.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:21 am

    Quoting Story435:
    I have never seen this before but I can say I'm dose not work very good at times that's for sure.
    Butch
It just started for me a day or two ago. I don't really go on The IM that often, but I want it to be my choice to do it!

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SweetCirce 76F  
6034 posts
12/19/2017 8:22 am

I wrote a blog about this recently. And I've written to site support. I've never seen anything more likely to piss off everybody.


GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:24 am

    Quoting throatscock:
    Some of us are so popular and we are just annoyed by all of the message on the IM.... lol
Pretty much any woman on this site is popular.....lol

The minute you log in on IM there are usually at least a few men wanting to chat........lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:27 am

    Quoting TB5758:
    I just hate that when I am not really on some may consider it rude of me not to respond. I try to tell them I am not on 24/7 even if it appears that way.
I agree and that's another reason I don't like it. When I would sign in on my cell I really didn't see that I had IM's. This new feature, I can see that I have them, but I may not feel like chatting at the moment and then slide it to busy and feel a tad bad.

Maybe A*F*F is trying to guilt us into chatting......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:31 am

    Quoting OldrHarleyGuy:
    Find that it happens all the time here. I just found that if I leave the computer on at all after I log off the site, it will keep me logged in as being on, so have to shut the computer off whenever i'm leaving it for awhile. Only stumbled on to this a little while back when was on another computer that was logged in on a friends account and it still showed me as being online.
    Anyway, is just another one of the tricks in the bag of many that these sites have adopted to keep it looking like there are more users online than really are and same with the IM, makes it look as though there are more there and open for chat than there really is, etc............
Yes..this site has all kinds of glitches going on. I have heard of the one you mention as well. I once had someone text me and ask if I was on and I wasn't, but they told me that my profile still said I was.

I agree it is all their marketing ploys to make the site look better....but it seems like we're all on to them.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:33 am

    Quoting perfumedgal3:
    I've people post"hey" "you there" over and over. It's rediculous. I'm not often on IM and so far when I am it freezes mid sentence. I don't like that some people get upset when I don't respond (since I'm not there, DUHHH). So it is a pain in the ass
I hear ya...some people can get a bit testy if they think you are ignoring them, when you don't even know that they are there..

Soooooooooo pain in the ass it is!!!

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:35 am

Yup....so says just about everyone!! You'd think they'd fix the things that don't work, instead of trying new things that won't work either.

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:38 am

    Quoting HarddinHou:
    ya the messenger is no good..... to top it all they just jacked up the cost/point system for non gold members. either trying really hard to get people to purchase gold, or to push people away; not sure which
So I hear, I am a gold member...but don't really go on the IM. I do hear all the complaints though about the problems.

I think they most likely want more members to go gold, or to buy points to do the "activities". Either way they are lining their pockets with $$.

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 8:41 am

    Quoting SweetCirce:
    I wrote a blog about this recently. And I've written to site support. I've never seen anything more likely to piss off everybody.
Ahhhhhh so I'm not the only one.....lol

I bet site support wasn't real helpful with it, they most likely say they are working on it and then nothing happens.

I hate to complain about the site all the time, but they make it real easy!

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s2ndegree 59M  
7373 posts
12/19/2017 11:25 am

I guess I'm lucky I live where I live.
The highly measured personalities
that generally pervade the site locally
makes this a no issue issue.
And here I always thought popularity
was a good thing.
Sorry for your grief.

Using more than all the road!


peterlikesplay2 61M
380 posts
12/19/2017 11:54 am

well it has an off switch...which i use all the time..otherwise it can be annoying..when i don't want to use it


Tmptrzz 55F  
39367 posts
12/19/2017 12:02 pm

From what your describing hun it sounds like maybe it's just on the cell phones as when I'm on my computer I don't see anything like that. Being on phone on the site sucks big time.. I hope you figure it out soon..

Tmptrzz


notsure1949 68M
5792 posts
12/19/2017 2:47 pm

this has happened to others, says they are logged on IM when the are not


Kalbi54 63M  
917 posts
12/19/2017 4:55 pm

I suspect it's because you're female and likely to attract the males that spend $$ keeping up the revenue streaming model for Find Lesbian Dating Adult Lesbian Chat. I'm sure very males have that issue.
Maybe you could threaten lawsuit under sex discrimination?


GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 6:04 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    I guess I'm lucky I live where I live.
    The highly measured personalities
    that generally pervade the site locally
    makes this a no issue issue.
    And here I always thought popularity
    was a good thing.
    Sorry for your grief.
It's just one of those annoying little glitches that we all experience on this site occasionally I suppose.

I don't consider myself popular....I just think all women are, so the minute one logs into the IM....the messages start.....lol.

That's great if one is interested in chatting, but if not....then being logged on to the IM without your permission so to speak, is just annoying.

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 6:06 pm

    Quoting peterlikesplay2:
    well it has an off switch...which i use all the time..otherwise it can be annoying..when i don't want to use it
That's about what I do....just slide the little "button" over to busy and problem solved....until it slides itself over mysteriously.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 6:13 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    From what your describing hun it sounds like maybe it's just on the cell phones as when I'm on my computer I don't see anything like that. Being on phone on the site sucks big time.. I hope you figure it out soon..
I very rarely go on the site, on my cell phone, and if I do I click on the link to use the full web version. If you use their app version or whatever it is....that's when you get logged in to IM automatically.

This has just started occurring when I'm on my laptop. It's just annoying, but I'll live....lol I just slide the switch to busy if I don't feel like chatting.

Just another A*F*F glitch we deal with sometimes...

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 6:17 pm

    Quoting notsure1949:
    this has happened to others, says they are logged on IM when the are not
Well technically I am logged into the IM, but it is the site doing it to me automatically.

But I have read about all kinds of glitches with the IM....so this is just another one.

Maybe one day they will make actual improvements that work......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/19/2017 6:21 pm

    Quoting Kalbi54:
    I suspect it's because you're female and likely to attract the males that spend $$ keeping up the revenue streaming model for Find Lesbian Dating Adult Lesbian Chat. I'm sure very males have that issue.
    Maybe you could threaten lawsuit under sex discrimination?
You may be right....I think they do try to do things to get men to commit to an upgraded membership.

It's just annoying, but one of those things I guess we deal with sometimes to be on the site.

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author51 55F  
49124 posts
12/19/2017 11:54 pm

I do not like it either when it shows I am on IM but am not as I never use it at all..I wish they had not linked it on.I ignore it when I see when others want to talk to me on it.

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12/20/2017 4:55 am

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/20/2017 9:07 am

    Quoting author51:
    I do not like it either when it shows I am on IM but am not as I never use it at all..I wish they had not linked it on.I ignore it when I see when others want to talk to me on it.
I'm glad it's not just me that's annoyed....lol

I really don't use the IM either, many times the opening lines of the men from there are as bad as the ones you get in emails. I learned that by the very, very few times I looked at it.

I just turn the little switch to busy if it magically turns on.

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
12/20/2017 9:12 am

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Wouldn't it be nice if the Find Lesbian Dating Adult Lesbian Chat honchos would just read a few of the blogs and realize that their ship is sinking? There are so many things that this site does wrong. Could you imagine if this site was for a company that sold candles? The only thing that keeps them in business is that we all enjoy the sex stuff on here. Otherwise, we wouldn't tolerate it and they would have been out of business long ago!
It would be nice, and you would think that they would take a few cues from their members in the blogs commenting on the annoying aspects of this site.

I guess they bank on the concept that sex sells and just run with that. But how much more $$ could they rake in if things actually worked right and more people were willing to shell out the money for gold memberships.

I bet many don't because they see all the complaints and figure.....why bother!

Ahhhhhhh....such is life on A*F*F......lol

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1/12/2018 1:32 pm

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GreenEyedLady_60 57F  
1301 posts
1/17/2018 10:28 am

Thanks for the agreement and the compliment!

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